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Colleentinker
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Posted on Thursday, February 25, 2010 - 8:15 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I was reading today in the children's books Forever Stories by Carolyn Byers, published by Review and Herald. Tell me what you think a child would grow up believing about God if he were taught these things—and more that I can't quote all at once.

For example, in book 1, the story of pre-creation says this:

quote:

God and His Son loved Their happy home with the angels. But Their love was so big that They wanted somebody new to love. They talked together and decided to make a brand-new world.…It made God and His Son smile to think about people. The people would laugh and sing and play. They would think up new ideas. God would enjoy talking to them…

God and His Son could hardly wait to tell the angels about Their plans. At the next meeting, God told them, "My Son and I are planning a special surprise. I need you to help Me by doing just what My Son says."

That was easy for the angels.They liked to do what God's Son asked. After all, they loved Him.




Do you see separate "gods" here??

In Book four is the story of the crucifixion. Near the end is the account of Judas returning the money to the temple after betraying Jesus. Here's the end of this story:


quote:

Judas could stand it no longer. He's not going to fight. He's not going to make Himself king He's going to die. I sold Jesus to die!

Judas felt his money bag. The 30 coins jingled. "Crucify Him! Crucify Him!" the crowd chanted.

They can't crucify Jesus. He isn't guilty. He didn't do anything wrong. Judas ran forward. "Jesus is innocent!" he cried.

Judas grabbed the money bag and threw it down. The coins jangled as they hit the stone floor. The crowd quieted.

Then Judas knelt before Jesus. "You are the Son of God. Save Yourself."

Jesus looked at Judas with kindness in His eyes. "This is why I came into the world."

Judas turned and went out into the night.…

Jesus walked up the road to Mount Calvary. On the way He passed a tree. Poor Judas. He had hung himself from the tree. It brought tears to Jesus' eyes.

At the top of a little hill, soldiers nailed Jesus' hands and feet to a cross.

Jesus hated the wickedness of those around Him. He longed for quiet and peace. He could have run away. But He didn't. God could have saved Him. But God didn't. Jesus died so that everyone everywhere could see what Satan is really like. And what God is really like.

That afternoon Jesus died so that people could choose to follow Him. And be saved.




I hardly know where to start. There is no mention in any of the entire five books of "atonement" or propitiation or paying for sin or dying to give us life. Moreover, did you catch the conclusion above?

Jesus died so everyone everywhere could see what Satan is really like. Oh yeah--and by the way--'And what God is really like."

He died so people could choose to follow Him. (Next sentence—or fragment...) And be saved.

Not so we could be made right with God, justified, made righteous, become children of God...

There's so much more, but I've got to do some other things right now..

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Colleen
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Posted on Thursday, February 25, 2010 - 8:44 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Colleen,
amazing you write about these today. I just noticed these exact new books under our coffee table and began to read. They made me want to vomit. I was getting ready to post and there was your post.

These are so far off base and filled with conjecture and blasphemy, I am beside myself. My wife says she is lead by the bible, yet will read these books to our girls. I am trying to figure out how to handle it.

These things are from the pit of hell and remind me of The Clear Word bible for kids.
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Posted on Thursday, February 25, 2010 - 8:48 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I am so glad I could not afford to get those blue books for my son. They are not Byers books, but they tell the same story. The Jesus they talk about is not the Jesus I learned about 5 1/2 years ago. I read my son the Bible stories right out of the Bible. He learned enough about adventism in the 3 years he was in sda school and some still clings to him.
Thank you awesome God for not letting me buy those books for my son.
Diana L
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Posted on Friday, February 26, 2010 - 12:18 am:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Quick thoughts--

Example #1--Oops! No Holy Spirit mentioned. God & Jesus 'planning a surprise"? Huh? They were surprising angels? Very weird. And I puzzle at the thought that these creations of God "would think up new ideas"--wow--I bet that was a real surprise for God!

Example # 2--here is the reason most of us grew up without knowing why Jesus really died for us! The false gospel indoctrination (with sometimes just a hint of the true, to make it a more confusing & subtle deception) starts very, very early.
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Posted on Friday, February 26, 2010 - 9:32 am:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Scratches for itching ears... cunningly devised fables...another gospel (which is no Gospel at all)...
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Posted on Friday, February 26, 2010 - 9:57 am:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

There's another book out there like that--maybe even worse. I wish I could remember the exact title but it's '(blank, Margie?) asks why?' This is the book that has the stories so far stretched from Biblical truth that I don't know how even SDA's can stand it.
Philharris
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Posted on Friday, February 26, 2010 - 10:01 am:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I am really working this through my mind:


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That was easy for the angels.They liked to do what God's Son asked. After all, they loved Him.



When God created the our physical universe, there was no sin. By this, I conclude that none of the angels, including Satan, had yet sinned. So, I find the statement that all the angels "loved Him" hard to fit into the "big picture".

After all, God's plan for our salvation was in place before creation or when sin entered into the equation.

So, why would God have such a conversation with his angels knowing some would soon rebel and be cast out of heaven?

When we make up stories about God and what God thinks or is doing we really need the mind of God to keep it within the bigger picture. Ellen and Adventist 'story time' simply misses the mark.

Fearless Phil
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Posted on Friday, February 26, 2010 - 10:53 am:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

This is a sweet sounding fairy tale that portrays God as two parents telling their 4-year-old about the birds and the bees. "One day, Mummy and Daddy were happy but lonely, and because we had so much extra love to give, we just decided to bring you into the world...and this decision made us even more happy!" So human and touchable and protective of the delicate, inquisitive mind.

We often have to tell our children about God in ways they will understand, and I think that being Mommy is what Byers is trying to do. The problem here is that she has injected strange theology into the story, like you have all mentioned. There is no sense of the majesty of the eternal Creator God who had foreordained our creation and salvation from all eternity, not as an after-thought. The two gods are portrayed as very human, who make their decisions in time after deliberating to make sure they agree. The Holy Spirit had no vote on this committee, it appears; three-way marriages are a little too complex for innocent minds.

"These things you have done, and I have been silent; you thought that I was one like yourself." Ps. 50:21

The godhead benefits from all this new creation, for these humans would "think up new ideas" that would enrich (the godhead's) lives and add to their pleasure. Perhaps we are nitpicking here, but I don't think so. The bi-theism is strongly implied, and not limited to just this passage. God's unity, eternal nature, and purposes are avoided.
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Posted on Friday, February 26, 2010 - 11:22 am:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I think the author got the basic narrative from EGW (and not from the Bible, of course). In fact, the Bible does not have a narrative for "pre-creation"! At Creation is when God created time and angels--there was nothing "before" that. God is outside of time (eternal).

EGW, in her "pre-creation" narrative, also has two gods planning it all, and has no "Holy Spirit" at all. So that may be why this author presents it that way--just following Ellen. Then later in her life, EGW added in a third god to her theology.

Jeremy

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Posted on Friday, February 26, 2010 - 11:25 am:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Cordurb,

You are the spiritual leader of your family. You can't let your children be deceived by these horrible books. The only thing I can tell you is that you're going to have to do whatever it takes to protect them from Adventism.

Jeremy
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Posted on Friday, February 26, 2010 - 11:29 am:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Cordurb, make special time with your kids and read them stories right from the Bible. I did that with my son, as an SDA b/c I could not afford those books. Thank our awesome God I could not.
When you kids notice the difference, show them what the Bible says.
Praying for you.
Diana L
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Posted on Friday, February 26, 2010 - 1:07 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Cordurb, I've also been thinking about your situation. I asked Richard what he would do if he had a situation like this...and his response was the same I had thought of.

Here's what he said, "I'd say, 'You have to respect my wishes in the rearing of the children as well. Since your stated goal is to teach only the Bible, let's just do that. Let's get rid of the books and just read the Bible to them."

Of course, this sort of response could trigger a reaction, but since she claims the Bible is her only guide, I'd hold her to that. You know the truth.

You might try pointing out the fact that these books say things the Bible doesn't even hint of...such as the "pre-creation" conversations and decisions...and don't allow the rationalizing that says, "We have to make this understandable to children" to overcome "Just go by the Bible."

The "humanness" of the Adventist "gods" Byers portrays is what struck me, also. But as Jeremy says, these narratives are derived straight from EGW. These are her ideas.

People argue that Adventism is fully trinitarian. I say, these stories demonstrate that the way Adventist children are taught about God builds a mental framework inside them that is false. They are not taught a sovereign God who paid for their sin. They are taught a warm, fuzzy "god" who is just like them.

Unless he/she is "converted" from a Christian church and has met Jesus before becoming Adventist, there's no way for an Adventist who grows up in the church to have any way to perceive God as the sovereign, all-powerful Being He really is. Adventists learn God is made up of three people with the same concerns--but not the same "essence". They are taught to "see" God the Father and God the Son as having physical bodies.

They are taught to understand God as needing them, not as themselves needing God. They think of "needing God" as a requirement for knowing what He is like and as a helper in their own obedience. They are not taught that God is a God of justice who has wrath against evil.

God is, like Martinc said so insightfully, "Mommy".

Colleen
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Posted on Friday, February 26, 2010 - 1:09 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Jeremy,

I agree totally, yet it is a delicate balance. Not sure if you are a father, but I believe it is a lot better for me to be around 100% of the time and pray over my kids and read the Word to them than to lay down and iron fist and have my wife leave.

Seems my Adventist wife doesn't subscribe to me being the spiritual head of the house since it does not line up with her theology.

Diana, every night I read a chapter to my kids before bed. We are in Romans now. My wife listens, and when my kids ask questions, I get to answer them. It is good....
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Posted on Friday, February 26, 2010 - 2:40 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I feel sick. I know the book Margie Asks Why so well. It is a Great Controversy story for children. I used to teach it to my Loma Linda Students. I may still have a copy in a stored box.

I also have the Bedtime Stories and Bible Stories that I saved for my grandchildren. Such beautiful books the Bible Stories and My Bible Friends. I won't be using them.
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Posted on Friday, February 26, 2010 - 2:51 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Sharon3,

Welcome!

Loma Linda Students? Teach? Margie? I don't even know you but you have my attention.

Weekend before last I was at the FAF Conference. Friday before things got started I went exploring, got a little lost going down in some canyon, crossed railroad tracks and ended up in an orange grove. I found out later I almost ended up in Loma Linda.

When you are ready, tell us more about yourself.

Fearless Phil
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Posted on Friday, February 26, 2010 - 3:42 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Hi Phil, Thanks. I was at the FAF as well. I just posted a new thread. It tells a little about me. I'll tell more as I get into this.
Philharris
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Posted on Friday, February 26, 2010 - 3:56 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Wow Sharon3,

Did we meet?

Fearless Phil
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Posted on Friday, February 26, 2010 - 4:27 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Sharon3, I have not welcomed you to FAF. So, Welcome to FAF. When you are ready, please tell us of your journey with Jesus.
Diana L
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Posted on Saturday, February 27, 2010 - 11:55 am:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Welcome Sharon 3.

Cordurb, Your reading to your children from the bible is great news telling them this is the right way in getting to know their loving new friend Jesus through his own words and not someone elses. I am so happy your wife is sitting in and listening to you not only reading but also to the answers of the questions your children are asking you.
I am praying for your wife that she will also meet the real Jesus instead of the phony portrait by EGW.
Gail
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Posted on Saturday, February 27, 2010 - 2:25 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Thanks Gail.
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Posted on Saturday, February 27, 2010 - 8:11 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Yep, Margie Asks Why. Hi Sharon 3! If anybody wants to cure a non-SDA pastor of ever thinking that SDA theology is orthodox, just give 'em a copy of 'Margie Asks Why'. I'm hunting for one now to give to my pastor.
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Posted on Saturday, February 27, 2010 - 8:59 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I found two of the books on eBay.
Diana L

(Message edited by Flyinglady on February 27, 2010)
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Posted on Sunday, February 28, 2010 - 8:47 am:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Thanks Diana, I'll have to go look over there.
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Posted on Tuesday, March 02, 2010 - 4:35 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Hi Sharon3!!! Welcome, welcome! You do know what went through my mind as I typed that?! (..ever welcome, blessed Sabbath day-ay..) Sorry, the old music tapes :-) ! Glad to have you here.
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Posted on Tuesday, March 02, 2010 - 5:43 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Nowisee, I laughed. I lead it many times at the University Church 3 year olds SS.

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