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Max
Posted on Saturday, November 18, 2000 - 11:48 am:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

NOTICE I SAID COMMANDMENT, NOT
SUGGESTION

We chose not only to believe in His existence
and kingship over the world, but we also
chose to accept His commandments. In any
conversion, Reform, Conservative, or
Orthodox, the male convert must undergo
circumcision. If he had been circumcised as a
baby, then even a ritual bris milah [surgical
ceremony] must be performed by drawing a
drop of blood. Why should anyone want to go
through such an ordeal just to say he's Jewish
and to go to temple on Friday nights?
Circumcision is performed on converts
because this is one of the commandments
that G-d gave to Abraham. Notice I said
commandment. Not suggestion.

We were given more than the 10
commandments. G-d gave us 613
commandments at Mount Sinai. He
commanded strict observance of the Sabbath.
He commanded us to keep kosher homes,
not because kosher food is better for you
(would G-d command us to do something that
isn't healthy?), but because He wanted us to
be holy and separate from the pagan world.
For us it should be enough that He
commanded it.

My parents taught me to be consistent. It
wouldn't be right for me to look at all of
America's laws and decide to keep every law
except those laws concerned with stealing.
Life might be easier if I could take things that
don't belong to me, but people can't just
choose to observe those laws that are most
convenient to them.

In the same sense, I don't feel right going
through the Torah and then deciding only to
keep certain commandments and not to
accept the others because I think they are
outdated or inconvenient.

--------------------------------------------------------------
Excerpted from Bruce James, ìJewish By
Choice: Why I Converted to Judaism,î
BALTIMORE JEWISH TIMES, April 10, 1981.
Full text available at:
http://members.delphi.com/bjames17/index.ht
ml
Cindy
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Max, Very interesting. I started laughing when I read your title to this thread, but you do have a point!! Thanks for sharing the above.
Grace always,
Cindy
Max
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Dear SDA friend,

Youíve heard of the great Jewish theologian
Abraham Joshua Heschel on the SABBATH
and you were thrilled.

(If not, hereís a synopsis: Heschelís ìThe
Sabbath: Its Meaning for Modern Manî (1951)
gives modern Jews an understanding of
Shabbat as a sanctification of time, as
opposed to what has become an
all-too-common adoration of space in
contemporary life. Shabbat observance,
Heschel says, requires withdrawal from the
space-world and immersion in the time-world,
with joy and song and poetry, in the rhapsody
of family love, in the company of friends, and
with mystical abandon in the praise of the
Creator. On Shabbat, we break free of the
profane and embrace the sacred.)

Now hear a far greater Jewish theologian,
Moses Maimonides, on CIRCUMCISION:

To the totality of purposes of the perfect Law
there belong the abandonment, depreciation,
and restraint of desires in so far as possible.
You know already that most of the lusts and
licentiousness of the multitude consist in an
appetite for eating, drinking and sexual
intercourse.

To the totality of intentions of the Law there
belong gentleness and docility; man should
not be hard and rough, but responsive,
obedient, acquiescent, and docile. You know
already His commandment... "Circumcise
therefore the foreskin of your heart, and be no
more stiffnecked. Be silent, and hearken, O
Israel. If ye be willing and obedient."


From Moses Maimonides, "The Guide of the
Perplexed", Part III, ch. 33. See:
http://www.cirp.org/library/cultural/maimonides
/

Max of the Cross
Max
Posted on Saturday, November 18, 2000 - 4:45 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

CIRCUMCISION:

1. Keeps ìthe organ be in as quiet a state as
possible.î

2. Perfects ìwhat is defective morally.î

3. ìWeakens the faculty of sexual excitement.î

4. Makes it ìhard for a woman with whom an
uncircumcised man has had sexual
intercourse to separate from him."

How do we know? The renowned Rabbi
Moses Maimonedes says so:

^^ With regard to circumcision, one of the
reasons for it is, in my opinion, the wish to
bring about a decrease in sexual intercourse
and a weakening of the organ in question, so
that this activity be diminished and the organ
be in as quiet a state as possible.

It has been thought that circumcision perfects
what is defective congenitally. This gave the
possibility to everyone to raise an objection
and to say: How can natural things be
defective so that they need to be perfected
from outside, all the more because we know
how useful the foreskin is for that member? In
fact this commandment has not been
prescribed with a view to perfecting what is
defective congenitally, but to perfecting what is
defective morally.

The bodily pain caused to that member is the
real purpose of circumcision. None of the
activities necessary for the preservation of the
individual is harmed thereby, nor is
procreation rendered impossible, but violent
concupiscence and lust that goes beyond
what is needed are diminished. The fact that
circumcision weakens the faculty of sexual
excitement and sometimes perhaps
diminishes the pleasure is indubitable. For if
at birth this member has been made to bleed
and has had its covering taken away from it, it
must indubitably be weakened.

The Sages, may their memory be blessed,
have explicitly stated: "It is hard for a woman
with whom an uncircumcised man has had
sexual intercourse to separate from him." In
my opinion this is the strongest of the reasons
for circumcision. Who first began to perform
this act, if not Abraham who was celebrated
for his chastity---as has been mentioned by
the Sages, may their memory be blessed, with
reference to his dictum: "Behold now, I know
that thou art a fair woman to look upon." ^^

Moses Maimonides, "The Guide of the
Perplexed", Part III, ch. 49. See:

http://www.cirp.org/library/cultural/maimonides
---------------------------------------------------------------

Therefore, dear SDA friends, if you recognize
the Jewish authorities on the value of the
Sabbath, then why not recognize what they say
about circumcision and make it -- like the
Sabbath -- a test of fellowship?

Max of the Cross
Max
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***************************************
THREE REASONS WHY GODíS LAW CAN BE
ìPERFECTED AND PERPETUATEDî IF
CIRCUMCISION IS DONE WHEN THE CHILD
IS EIGHT DAYS OLD

by Moses Maimonides


ìThe perfection and perpetuation of this Law
can only be achieved if circumcision is
performed in childhood. For this there are
three wise reasons.î

YOUR CHILD WOULDNíT HAVE IT DONE
AFTER HE GROWS UP. ìThe first is that if the
child were let alone until he grew up, he would
sometimes not perform it.î

HE SUFFERS LESS PAIN AS A BABE THAN
HE WOULD AS A GROWN MAN. ìThe second
is that a child does not suffer as much pain as
a grown-up man because his membrane is
still soft and his imagination weak; for a
grown-up man would regard the thing, which
he would imagine before it occurred, as
terrible and hard.î

IF YOU WAIT TILL HEíS 2 OR 3 YEARS OLD --
RATHER THAN 8 DAYS -- THEN YOU WOULD
LOVE HIM TOO MUCH TO CAUSE HIM THAT
MUCH PAIN. "The third is that the parents of a
child that is just born take lightly matters
concerning it, for up to that time the
imaginative form that compels the parents to
love it is not yet consolidated. For this
imaginative form increases through habitual
contact and grows with the growth of the child.
Then it begins to decrease and to disappear, I
refer to this imaginative form. For the love of
the father and of the mother for the child when
it has just been born is not like their love for it
when it is one year old, and their love for it
when it is one year old is not like their love
when it is six years old. Consequently if it were
left uncircumcised for two or three years, this
would necessitate the abandonment of
circumcision because of the father's love and
affection for it. At the time of its birth, on the
other hand, this imaginative form is very weak,
especially as far as concerns the father upon
whom this commandment is imposed."


Moses Maimonides, "THE GUIDE OF THE
PERPLEXED", Part III, ch. 49. See:

http://www.cirp.org/library/cultural/maimonides
---------------------------------------------------------------

Therefore, dear SDA parents, if you really love
Godís Law as you say you do, then wouldn't
will ìperfecting and perpetuatingî it in your new
babyís life by circumcising him as well as
taking him to Sabbath School?

Please post your answers as soon as you
can.

Max of the Cross
Maryann
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Interesting information!!!

Happy......."Bris Shalom!"
Bruceh
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Max

Max you should see what Moses Maimonides says
about being made in Gods Image. He is very
interesting to read.

Bruce Heinrich


BH
Max
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Thanks, Bruce, I think I will.
Max
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CIRCUMCISION: AN IMPORTANT PUBLIC
HEALTH MEASURE TO PREVENT AIDS

While the AIDS epidemic has occurred
primarily among homosexual males and
intravenous drug users in America, it is a
disease of predominantly heterosexual men
and women in Africa. In the past, it has been
noticed that men who were uncircumcised
and men with a history of genital ulcer
disease such as syphilis and chancroid were
more likely than men who were circumcised
or those without a similar sexually transmitted
disease (STD) history to have AIDS.

Deborah A. Cohen, MD, MPH
Associate Professor
Louisiana State University Medical Center
Department of Public Health and Preventive
Medicine
1600 Canal Street, 8th Floor
New Orleans, LA 70112
504/568-7474
504/568-7044 FAX

http://www.rj.org/beritmila/bmnews2.html

***************************

Therefore, dear SDA friends,

In view of the fact that millions of Seventh-day
Adventists live in Africa, donít you think that this
is an excellent reason to make circumcision a
test of SDA fellowship?

And isnít this at least as good a reason for
doing so as is the ìyou need one day in seven
to restî argument for the Sabbath test of SDA
fellowship?

Awaiting your answers,

Max of the Cross
Max
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Good News for Making Circumcision an SDA
Test of Fellowship! ONLY BABIES HAVE TO
FEEL THE PAIN!

"If a circumcised male (or even a
non-circumcised male) converts to Judaism,
there is a "symbolic" circumcision (no adult is
ever circumcised), involving a tiny pin-prick
which draws a drop of blood from just beneath
the corona, again done by a trained
professional, and practically unable to be felt. "

Bruce Rosenstock, Bruce Rosenstock,
Lecturer, Religious Studies and Classics,
University of California, Davis.

Go to:

http://philo.ucdavis.edu/~bruce/RST23/STDNT
PAGES/Hunt/adults.htm

and

bbrosenstock@ucdavis.edu
Max
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More Good News for Circumcision as SDA
Test of Fellowship: MEDICAL COMMUNITY
APPROVES OF ADULT CIRCUMCISION FOR
RELIGIOUS REASONS

Adult circumcision can be performed under
local or regional anesthesia. Medical
indications for this procedure include
phimosis, paraphimosis, recurrent balanitis
and posthitis (inflammation of the prepuce).
Nonmedical reasons may be social, cultural,
personal or religious. The procedure is
commonly performed using either the dorsal
slit or the sleeve technique. The dorsal slit is
especially useful in patients who have
phimosis. The sleeve technique may provide
better control of bleeding in patients with large
subcutaneous veins. A dorsal penile nerve
block, with or without a circumferential penile
block, provides adequate anesthesia.
Informed consent must be obtained. Possible
complications of adult circumcision include
infection, bleeding, poor cosmetic results and
a change in sensation during intercourse.

Dr. JOHN R. HOLMAN and Dr. KEITH A.
STUESSI, ìAdult Circumcision,î AMERICAN
FAMILY PHYSICIAN, March 15, 1999

Full text available at:

http://www.findarticles.com/cf_0/m3225/6_59/
54129340/p1/article.jhtml
Max
Posted on Monday, November 20, 2000 - 9:17 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

JESUS WAS CIRCUMCISED!

Dear SDA friend,

You or your representatives -- such as Doug
Batchelor of "Amazing Facts" -- maintain that
the Sabbath should be kept because our
example Jesus Christ kept it and that this
example is so important that required
Sabbath-keeping should also be retained as
a test of fellowship.

Well, our example Jesus Christ was also
circumcised.

NIV Luke 2:21 ^^On the eighth day, when it
was time to circumcise him, he was anmed
Jesus, the name the angel had given him
before he had been conceived.^^

So by the same logic, should not we
also be circumcized therefore?

And shouldn't circumcision also be made a
test of fellowship as it was with the Jews of
Christ's day?

Your well-considered answers would be
greatly appreciated.

Max of the Cross
Max
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GOD'S WORD COMMANDS CIRCUMCISION

Excerpts from ìAdovcating Circumcision Today
(Part I): Circumcision ñ Its Source in the Torah
[Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers and
Deuteronomy]î

It is written in Genesis, (17; 10-12): "This shall
be the covenant that you shall keep between
Me and you and your children after you: you
shall circumcise all males. And you shall
circumcise the flesh of your foreskin, and this
shall be the sign of the covenant between Me
and you. And at eight days old you shall
circumcise all males for all generations..."

Circumcision was first performed some 3,800
years ago by our forefather, Abraham, on
himself, at the age of 99. Only after having
been circumcised was he fit to father the
Jewish nation. When his son, Isaac, was
born, Abraham circumcised him on the eighth
day, in accordance with G-dís commandment
to do so.

THE REASON FOR BRIT MILAH [SACRED
SURGERY]

The word brit means "covenant" and the word
Milah means "circumcision". Circumcision is
that which permanently establishes a
covenant between G-d and the Jew. (A Jewish
female is born already circumcised, so to
speak, possessing this holy sign within her
from the moment of birth.)

G-d wanted to permanently affix a symbol on
the bodies of the people He chose to be
called by His name. Circumcision was
designated as the symbol of this covenant,
being that this is the source from which the
perpetuation of the species emanates.

One might ask: If G-d desired that all males
be circumcised, why then did He not simply
create the human being already circumcised?

The answer to that is as follows: The reason
G-d does not create the human being
complete already in the motherís womb, is in
order to indicate that just as the physical
aspects of the body can be perfected by
human deeds (such as circumcision), so too
is it within the personís ability to perfect the
soul by correcting oneself spiritually through
the covenant of circumcision.

CIRCUMCISION AS IMMUNIZATION AGAINST
LIFEíS PROBLEMS

It is of interest to note that penile cancer is
almost unheard of by Jewish men. Based on
these observations, circumcision throughout
the world has now become a routine medical
practice.

Although circumcision by Jews is not
performed because of health benefits, but
rather solely because G-d commanded us to
do so, we are nevertheless confident that
whatever G-d commanded us to do, is
ultimately for our benefit and will only
contribute to the physical and spiritual
well-being of the person. After all, G-d
commands us in the Torah to maintain a
healthy body and is called by the title, "Healer
of all flesh".

ACT
545 8th Ave. Rm# 401
New York, N.Y. 10018ÝÝ
TEL 212-613-3293ÝÝÝ
TEL 212 877 BRIT NOW

Full text available at:

http://www.act-now.org/circumcision2.htm
Valm
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Max, I am confused. In some of your passages you seem to support circumcision and others you do not. I do gather your message that circumcision was a part of the old testament law and logic follows that it should also be kept if you believe that these laws were not done away with.

But do you think that God provided circumcision as a matter of health to his people? I do know that the AMA and AAP (medical organizations) have been batting their positions back and forth through out my professional carreer. I do know the current stance of the AAP is they are not recommended for health benefit.

The statistices on AIDS in south Africa may be skewed due to other factors. AIDS in parts of Africa is prevalent due to their concept of sexuality outside of marriage. Some of the cultures find it acceptable to have multiple wifes as well as to share their wifes with travelers from other villages. I do not know whether these cultural factors exist in South Africa but I would imagine they do play an impact on it. I would think that a study to verify these findings would be whether there is a difference in the sexual practices of the circumcised men vs the uncircumcised. This may be the true link to HIV frequency than the variable of circumcision.

Penile cancer may be almost non existent in Jewish men but what is the current rate of this disease in other genetic groups? Is there a difference in other genetic groups of circumcised vs uncircumcised men? There are other cultures that have circumcision as part of there ceremonial rites; what is their rate of penile cancer? Is the non existence of penile cancer due to the amount of sexual partners Jewish men have throughout their life vs other men. So many variables so little research.

To our Adventist friends PLEASE PLEASE don't add this to your list of things to do today!!!! Live in God's magnificient grace and know that there is not anything more you can do today to have his love. His grace is sufficient for you!!!!!!!
Maryann
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I think the whole point was that if a person thinks they have to keep the Sabbath, they should also have to keep the circumcision law!

Of course His grace is sufficient;-)

Both the Sabbath and circumcision were signs of God's covenant with Israel, why keep one without the other?

Maryann

PS.....Since everyone is getting so graphic with this subject, I'll add my 2 cents worth.

The most logical and "dignified" circumcision is when it is a "half circumcision":):):):)

Any questions?
Max
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Hi Valm,

Methinks you are a health-care professional.
I'm impressed with your knowledge of applied
medical science.

As to your confusion on my position on
circumcision, maybe I can clarify.

Basically Maryann is correct: I'm trying to show
our Adventist friends that their arguments in
favor of required Sabbath-keeping are
inconsistent. And that if one is to be
consistent, then the following slogan should
apply:

REQUIRE SABBATH, REQUIRE
CIRCUMCISION.

May I hear from all of my Adventist friends out
there? Ken, are you lurking? What sayest
thou?

Max of the Cross
Valm
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Max,

Yes I am.

I get that part of your arguement. I just don't get the other stuff. Are you trying to touch a few nerves (no pun intended) or drive up some passion? (I didn't mean that the way it might have sounded)

I suppose my overall concern with this and other threads is do these topics stimulate a desire to know God or arguement over points of doctrine?
If we are trying to adress our Adventist friends, is this the right approach? I wonder if our Adventist friends become more defensive or percieve genuine concern for them.

By the way trivia question: Do you know the practical application of doing a circ on the 8th day?

Happy Thanksgiving to you Max and to all others who read this. I have enjoyed coming back to the computer today for my breaks from a marathon house clean. I hope through the holiday weekend I will be able to sign on.

Valerie
Max
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Hi Valerie,

Thanks for the Thanksgiving wishes and the
same to you and your family.

No, I don't know the practical application of
doing a mahel on the eighth day. What is it?

About our approach to our Adventist friends, I
have often pondered this question. And I am
open to further consideration from others as to
the "hows" of going about reaching them.

I have settled on one principle: Whatever is to
be done, it is to be done in love. And I do love
them and believe I have a special calling from
God to reach them.

Remember that both Jesus and Paul used
different techniques to reach those who had
no "eyes" to see nor "ears" to hear.

Here's a circumcision example from Paul:


RSV Galatians 5:10 I have confidence in the
Lord that you will take no other view than mine;
and he who is troubling you will bear his
judgment, whoever he is.
11 But if I, brethren, still preach circumcision,
why am I still persecuted? In that case the
stumbling block of the cross has been
removed.
12 I wish those who unsettle you would
MUTILATE themselves!
13 For you were called to freedom, brethren;
only do not use your freedom as an
opportunity for the flesh, but through love be
servants of one another.
14 For the whole law is fulfilled in one word,
"You shall love your neighbor as yourself."

Notice that the Greek word for "mutilate" here
is not "circumcise," but "castrate"!

The NIV reads, "As for these agitators
[Christian Sabbatarians from Jerusalem], I
wish they would go the whole way and
emasculate themselves!"

And the NIV text note for this verse reads, "The
Greek word means 'to cut off,' or 'to castrate.'
In Php 3:2 Paul uses a related word to
describe the same sort of people as
'mutilators of the flesh.' His sarcasm is
evident."

Why would Paul use sarcasm? I'll quote you 1
Corinthians 9:19-21 (my own translation):

^^^^^^^^^^^^
Although from all men I am free,
I made myself a slave to all
so I could gain the more:

I became to the Jews a Jew
so I could gain the Jews.

To those beneath the law
as one beneath the law
(not myself beneath the law)
so those beneath the law
I could gain.

To those outside the law
as one outside the law
(not outside the law of God
but inside the law of Christ)
so those outside the law
I could gain.

I became to the weak ones weak
so I could gain the weak.

All things to all I have become
so that at least I might save some.
^^^^^^^^^^^^

I am open to further discussion on this
subject.

Max of the Cross
Valm
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The body does not manufacture adequate vitamin K until the 8th day and vitamin K facilitates blood clotting. I wonder was the 8th day a God thing or a trial and error thing?

I am pondering on the correct way to begin discussion with Adventists. I guess I have always been sensitive to the whole spiritual sparring thing. I know in my childhood household your discussion would have certainly aroused (there I go again) tempers.

I believe that you have such zeal and passion and knowledge but perhaps some softening on the approach could occur as I believe that sometimes the sincere love you have is not evident in the approach.

I don't know what to think of Paul's passage that you quoted. I do know he was considered zealous and wonder if I was around then if I wouldn't be giving him the grief I gave you.

I gotta quite coming back to this computer. The house is cleaned and it is time to take my little guy to his soccer/pizza party. And tonight Grandpop will be in for the holidays. Once again may you have just the wonderfulest (is that a word?) of holidays. Valerie
Max
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Valerie,

Glad you managed to post while keeping
everything domestic under control. Wish you
and yours the best of Thanksgivings.

On the topic of "approach" I have a passage
for your opinion, particularly the part in all
caps:

NIV 2 Corinthians 12:15 So I will very gladly
spend for you everything I have and expend
myself as well. If I love you more, will you love
me less?
16 Be that as it may, I have not been a burden
to you. YET, CRAFTY FELLOW THAT I AM, I
CAUGHT YOU BY TRICKERY!
17 Did I exploit you through any of the men I
sent you?
18 I urged Titus to go to you and I sent our
brother with him. Titus did not exploit you, did
he? Did we not act in the same spirit and
follow the same course?
19 Have you been thinking all along that we
have been defending ourselves to you? We
have been speaking in the sight of God as
those in Christ; and everything we do, dear
friends, is for your strengthening.

What do you think?
Valm
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With the risk of sounding like a heretic, I think Paul had poor skills in diplomacy and tact. But nevertheless his energy, enthusiasm and knowledge was used to the great glory of God. Valerie
Maryann
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Hi Y'all,

In thinking about this "tact" issue!

Not one of us on this earth is perfect. Each one of us says things we wish we could take back. Everyone of us has our own way of communicating. There are things that I said, and ways I said things 6 months ago that I felt were right but don't use that same approach now. I say things now that I may not think are right 6 months from now! THAT IS CALLED GROWTH! I'm not in any way criticizing anyone here, I'm just going to try to make a point.

Take a look at the TV media. I'm not talking about the raunchy commercials!!!! I'm talking about the decent few, (there were more to choose from 15 years ago.) What commercials stick in your mind? The more creative ones! The ones that went around the horn to get your attention are the ones you recall easiest.

As to Paul having "poor skills in diplomacy and tact," God must have had a "tactless plan" to have used him as the guy that wrote the most books in the NT. Maybe that is a hint that "we" too are to use what ever means that are impressed upon us to get the point across.

Yeh, Paul had as much tact as a busted duck! "Oh you foolish Galations! Who has bewitched you?" is rather tactless!

I tend not to use to many Bible verses. I have received criticizism for that. That is okay, I don't mind that. What makes it worthwhile is that I will get an e-mail now and then telling me that my lack of "Bible thumping" is easy to read, yet has familiar Bible principles all through it. There are enough other people that use a lot of Bible and even post behind me and post verses to amplify my post, to make this a very Biblical site.

So, I fully believe that every post on this site is beneficial to someone out there. Even if it is just one person, that post is a valuable as one that many benefit from.

Upward and onward........Maryann
Max
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How's this for tact?

NIV Matthew 23:13 "Woe to you, teachers of
the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You
shut the kingdom of heaven in men's faces.
You yourselves do not enter, nor will you let
those enter who are trying to.
15 "Woe to you, teachers of the law and
Pharisees, you hypocrites! You travel over land
and sea to win a single convert, and when he
becomes one, you make him twice as much a
son of hell as you are.
Valm
Posted on Wednesday, November 22, 2000 - 9:05 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Max, I don't know how to figure you out. It would certainly help if I could see your body language when you speak. The computer leaves alot out when it comes to communicating. I am going on an hunch that you are probably the nicest guy and about the age of my father. I would probably just love you face to face but I only see the computer side of you. And much like my Father, I have to be honest your words provoke me at times.

I agree with both you and MaryAnn that it takes all kinds. And maybe your approach reaches alot more people than I can imagine. I know I am awfully sensitive. None of us are perfect. I myself make mistakes moment by moment it seems. And I am concerned that I have said things on this line that would be perceived as angry or condescending towards Adventist.

With regards to Paul. Isn't it wonderful that God gave him the ability to understand what happened at the cross and his ability to articulate well and used it too speak to the multitude of generations that followed him? But I have to be honest that sometimes Paul grates on me. His Gospel message part of his Epistles are awesome. But the sections that seem more conversational to the churches he is writing to can be abrasive. I do not view them as inspired by God the way I view the portions of them in which he is teaching the Gospel.

I do have an overall concern about approach.

When I was a child like all of your I went to many evangelistic series. They all started out much like they would in any denomination. This was a way to get the people comfortable with Adventist and to view them as mainstream. After about 5 such meetings maybe less, the subjects would get gradually and systematically into the doctrines that differentiate Adventism from mainstream Christianity. This was a deceptive practice that really upset alot people in attendance. Another practice that is used is to pass out literature and sell books while avoiding letting people know that the books are from the Adventist church. Many Adventists would justify what I consider dishonest and bad behavior with the Bible texts you gave above.

My brothers and father used to be very CONFRONTATIONAL with me. They would begin with a subject they knew I was interested in and somehow weave in whatever message they thought I needed at the time. Once the opening came the message was either confrontational or verbally abusive towards my beliefs and values. They used those texts above to justify their actions. They would follow it up with my "grieving away the Holy Spirit" if I did not agree with them texts and if I became angry with them they were "persecuted for righteousness sake"

I finally told them all to please stop using the Bible to condone what they know in their heart is bad behavior.

I think that the topics discussed here are important. I am amazed at the Biblical knowledge many of you have and am learning alot. But it grieves me to think that rather than capturing Adventists hearts with the Gospel message we might be hardening them with confrontation.

Sometimes Dear Adventist Friends sounds like a taunt rather than an invitation to a loving conversation in a friendly environment.
Max
Posted on Wednesday, November 22, 2000 - 9:49 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Dear Valerie,

I don't feel as though I have any choice in the
matter. I feel driven by our sovereign God and
coached by the examples of Scripture. How
tactful was Stephen?

Max of the Cross
Maryann
Posted on Wednesday, November 22, 2000 - 9:58 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Hi Val,

Yeh, everyone sure has their own ways of communicating. Everyone that post here has people that get grated by their post's. There are countless others that are blessed.

I figure, if one pleases everyone, they are "usually" wishy washy. My personality enjoys Max's approach. He has skinned me as have a few other people. I have skinned a few too, so join the ranks of the humans;-) Max tends to keep me thinking and that is good.

As to what Max is like. Here is the perfect description of him. Big bark, bigger tail that wags all the time!;-))

:):):):).......Maryann

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