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Jim02
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Post Number: 75
Registered: 5-2007
Posted on Tuesday, June 19, 2007 - 6:14 am:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

When I look at others around me.
My own problems often pale in comparison.
Then there are those times when I say,why me?

I consider that each persons problems and sufferings are very much important to them.
And I have see where we pay more attention to others needs , that often we experience relief from our own.

I wonder how God looks at us individually. Does he say, you don't realize how blessed you are.

What am I saying here?
Just that , I wonder how significant our problems are in the big scheme of things.

When I look at how much unspeakable horror there is in wars or even close to home when tragedy strikes families, accidents, cancer etc...
Then I am ashamed I even sorrow at all. My problems pale in view of the bigger picture.

Then I wonder if I even matter. Am I incidental or am I personally important to God.

All these are relationship attitudes.
These are the ingredients that knit together the relationship process.

I embarass myself to show this insecurity. Perhaps it will mean something to others.
River
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Post Number: 897
Registered: 9-2006


Posted on Tuesday, June 19, 2007 - 5:55 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Matthew 10:29 "Are not two sparrows sold for a copper coin? And not one of them falls to the ground apart from your Father's will.
Matthew 10:30 "But the very hairs of your head are all numbered.
Matthew 10:31 "Do not fear therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows.
Hebrews 13:5 Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, "I will never leave you nor forsake you."
Hebrews 13:6 So we may boldly say: "The Lord is my helper; I will not fear. What can man do to me?"
Hebrews 13:7 Remember those who rule over you, who have spoken the word of God to you, whose faith follow, considering the outcome of their conduct.
Hebrews 13:8 Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.
Flyinglady
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Post Number: 3813
Registered: 3-2004


Posted on Tuesday, June 19, 2007 - 9:27 pm:   Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I have learned that God is concerned about everything that affects us. He knows what is important and what is insignificant.
I want to retire and do not have money to do so. When I get antsy about it and complain to God, He brings to my mind a couple of questions: Diana, how long have you driven a stick shift car? Diana, are you doing something you like and made good money? Diana, are you healthy? I have to answer yes to each and tell God that I drove a stick shift car for 46 years and could still do it if I needed to.
So I have decided that when God says it is time for me to retire, He will make sure there is enough. He cares about us and like I said, He knows what is important and what is not.
Diana

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